The Evolution of Marriage Counseling – Does It Work?
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Over the past few decades, couples therapy has evolved significantly, adapting to changing societal norms, advancements in research, and emerging therapeutic approaches.
Can a Marriage Survive Lack of Communication?
Communication, Conflict Resolution, Hope, Marriage CounselingWhat really causes communication problems in a relationship? Can a marriage survive without resolving those issues? Read more here.
How Can I Improve Communication with My Husband or Wife?
Advice, Anger, Communication, Conflict Resolution, Marriage CounselingExplore ways to communicate better with your partner, whether they’re withdrawn, aggressive, or somewhere in between.
Why Do Men Struggle to Communicate?
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Solution to Lack of Communication in Marriage
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Communication, Marriage CounselingDiscover what causes communication to break down in a marriage and how you and your partner can reignite positive conversations.
What To Expect in Couples Therapy After Infidelity
Affair Recovery, Affairs, Marriage CounselingIf you’ve found this article, you’re likely in a difficult place with your romantic partner.
Infidelity can be a staggering blow to any relationship, and the resulting pain can make…
What Are the Different Kinds of Couples Therapy?
Advice, Communication, Marriage CounselingJust like there are many kinds of couples, there are many kinds of couples therapy. Each approach to couples therapy is rooted in its own specific theories about relationships, emotions, and human...
What Techniques Do Marriage Counselors Use?
Advice, Marriage CounselingLet’s talk a bit about marriage & couples counseling, some things you can expect in a session, and how we believe it can help any relationship—including yours!
What Is the Most Effective Form of Couples Therapy?
Advice, Marriage CounselingYour therapist will draw from and combine these techniques (plus others!) in a customized plan that targets your relationship's unique needs and goals. Let’s review some of the techniques.
Couples Therapy Techniques
Advice, Communication, Conflict Resolution, Marriage CounselingWe know the most up to date practices and proven scientific approaches that help all interpersonal relationships, including how to handle vulnerability, complex pasts...
How Do You Know if Your Marriage Needs Counseling?
Advice, Marriage Counseling, Success StoriesIf your relationship feels tense, stale, or disconnected, it doesn’t mean it’s time to call it quits. Instead, consider working with a couples therapist to find ways to heal and rekindle...
7 Marriage Counseling Questions to Strengthen Your Relationship
Advice, Marriage CounselingIf you haven’t been to couples therapy before, it’s helpful to know what to expect. A great place to start is this list of the seven most popular marriage counseling questions.
Fun Relationship Exercises for Couples
Advice, Intimacy, Marriage Counseling, RomanceFind out what activities to do to improve communication, build trust, and rekindle the flame in your romantic relationship.
Marriage Counseling Tips
Advice, Intimacy, Marriage Counseling, Success StoriesAre you wondering how to make the most out of marriage counseling? We have tips to help!
Success Stories: Karen and Peter
Advice, Affair Recovery, Anger, Communication, Hope, Marriage Counseling, Success StoriesMeet Karen and Peter, who decided to go to couples counseling after an affair.
Success Stories: Kevin and Paula
Advice, Communication, Conflict Resolution, Hope, Marriage Counseling, Success StoriesSometimes couples wish to share their marriage counseling success stories. We're collecting and celebrating their happiness here! Meet Sydney and Andrew.
Success Stories: Sydney and Andrew
Advice, Communication, Hope, Intimacy, Marriage Counseling, Success StoriesOn the vulnerability of sharing success stories:
Sometimes a couple wants to share their story. We’re really appreciative of the vulnerability and trust such a feat takes, and we hope…
Success Stories: James and Susan
Advice, Communication, Conflict Resolution, Hope, Marriage Counseling, Romance, Success StoriesOn the vulnerability of sharing success stories:
Sometimes a couple wants to share their story. We’re really appreciative of the vulnerability and trust such a feat takes, and we hope…
Success Stories: Nadia and Liam
Advice, Conflict Resolution, Hope, Intimacy, Marriage Counseling, Success StoriesOn the vulnerability of sharing success stories:
Sometimes a couple wants to share their story. We're really appreciative of the vulnerability and trust such a feat takes, and we hope you…
What Not To Say During Couples Counseling
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Signs Marriage Counseling is Working
Advice, Hope, Marriage CounselingDiscover how to know when your relationship is benefitting from marriage counseling and what you can do to get the best results.
Can Couples Therapy Help You Fall Back in Love?
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How Can I Make My Marriage Counseling More Effective?
Advice, Hope, Marriage CounselingLearn what you can do to make your marriage counseling more effective, including coming in with the right mindset and being ready to put in the work
How Do You Know When Marriage Counseling Isn’t Working?
Advice, Hope, Marriage CounselingIf you’re still wondering about the effectiveness of marriage counseling, the fact that the overwhelming majority of couples have a successful experience might help ease your mind.
What Is Talked About During Marriage Counseling?
Advice, Hope, Marriage CounselingFortunately, if you and your partner know what to expect before you begin, it can feel a lot less scary—and you'll likely get more out of the experience.
A Marriage that Heals
Advice, Communication, Hope, Intimacy, Marriage Counseling, TraumaAs children we all experience woundedness, some more so than others. In addition to struggles from childhood, emotional pain is something we experience and accumulate all throughout life.
Support for Anxiety and Depression in Relationships
Advice, Anxiety, Communication, Depression, Hope, Marriage CounselingOften partners of someone struggling with anxiety will say things like, “there’s nothing to worry about” or “just stop thinking about it” or “it could be worse” or “just cheer up.” These things are ta
What a Marriage Counselor Should Not Say
Advice, Marriage CounselingWhile some reports show that marriage counseling has a positive impact on 70% of couples, the journey to healing your relationship is not always easy. Even if you and your partner agree that therapy
What Should I Not Tell a Marriage Counselor?
Advice, Communication, Marriage CounselingAll relationships go through phases. Sometimes, you’re perfectly in sync with your partner and your personalities just click. You are open when communicating with each other, and you are excited
Marriage Counseling: What Not To Say
Advice, Communication, Marriage CounselingBeginning marriage counseling means you are committed to doing hard work to restore your relationship. That work includes speaking your truth about hopes, fears, hurts, and happiness. Reigniting joy
What Are Common Goals In Couples Therapy?
Advice, Hope, Marriage CounselingThe idea of going to marriage counseling can feel like the first domino falling for a failing relationship, but this is a tired and untrue sentiment associated with the practice. Deciding that therapy
What Questions Does a Marriage Counselor Ask?
Marriage CounselingSo, you’re thinking about marriage counseling - that’s great! Marriage (or pre-marriage) counseling is a fantastic way to create or renew a healthy, happy relationship with your partner.
50 Marriage Counseling Questions for Before and During Marriage
Advice, Communication, Intimacy, Marriage CounselingMarriage counseling—to some, it indicates failure. To others, it’s a sign of hope. And to many, it’s new and unknown territory, one that might have you Googling “marriage counseling tips”
How Long Is Too Long for Couples Therapy?
Advice, Marriage CounselingIt can be intimidating and scary to join the 49% of couples who attend marriage counseling (or to be part of the 52% who are interested in trying it). Whether you’re currently going to sessions
Average Length of Marriage Counseling
Advice, Hope, Marriage CounselingThere’s no sugar-coating it—successful relationships sometimes require genuinely hard work. In some cases, adding the pressures of married life (not to mention kids, a lost job, family tragedy, and so
What is the Difference Between Marriage Counseling and Couples Therapy?
Advice, Hope, Intimacy, Marriage Counseling, TraumaThe adage that tells everyone, “50% of marriages end in divorce,” does not have to be your reality if you find the right couples specialist. It all depends on what you do when your relationship feels
How Long Do Couples Usually Go to Counseling?
Marriage CounselingChallenging issues in a relationship can be tough to work through on your own. And research tells us that it takes over two and a half years before couples attempt to address their concerns through
How Long Does Marriage Counseling Take?
Advice, Communication, Hope, Marriage CounselingHow much time would you be willing to spend a week to get a happier, healthier, more enriching relationship with your spouse or partner? Marriage counseling sessions typically take around 50 minutes
What Percentage of Marriages Survive After Counseling?
Advice, Hope, Marriage CounselingIf you’re struggling in your relationship, you might be considering marriage counseling—also known as couples therapy. But marriage counseling can be daunting to consider for some.
Is Marriage Counseling Really Worth It?
Advice, Hope, Marriage CounselingYes—marriage counseling is worth it. It’s an opportunity to come together with your partner, away from the hustle and bustle of life, and solely focus on each other. Many couples find their
Our Angry Marriage
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Culturally Diverse Marriage
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A Thank You Letter
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Coming in Second
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Communication Problems
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A Happy Couples Blog Post
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Long Winter of Marriage
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Marriage Bonding Analogy
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Our Marriage Had To Change
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